Pamela Miguel had a passion for life and helping others overcome adversity. When asked how his day was going, he’d answer, “ Pure Joy”, especially when nothing was really going well! His humble beginnings inspired his optimistic perspective. An immigrant who fled political turmoil, he let his obstacles serve as motivation. He lived by his mantra: “Don’t sweat the small stuff!” Miguel was a magnetic role model to everyone around him. His work ethic and commitment to joy made his light shine brighter than the sun. However, his unwavering optimism ceased after enduring multiple medical traumas between 2019-2021, causing severe depression , which took his life on August 20, 2024. He died feeling hopeless, abandoned by God and fearing that he burdened his family. Miguel’s joy and love of life are missing from our lives, [...]

Nicole “It’s not your fault. You were the best part of me.” This was the text Nicole Spector received from her oldest son, Greyson, on March 26, 2020, moments before he ended his life by jumping from the 18th floor of a hotel. Greyson (Grey) Spector appeared to have it all. He was months away from graduating from Duke University and had just been accepted into Duke Law School. Nicole recalls Grey’s excitement when telling her, “I can’t believe I actually get to go there next year.” As the oldest of four, Grey was a role model to his younger brothers, who deeply adored and admired him. They always followed in his footsteps, whether it was learning an instrument, chess, lacrosse, or active debate. Because Grey did it, they did it. Despite being brilliant and [...]

Terry The Barber family’s world came crashing down on them on December 11, 2021, when Luke didn’t wake up. Ironically, on that same day, he had been planning to enter a residential treatment program. Things seemed to be turning around for Luke after years of an endless cycle of relapses. At 5:15am Luke texted his mother, Terry, to say, “Mom, I’m going to give this my best shot. I’m going to learn to love myself again.” But by 2:00pm — it was too late. From an early age, Luke wrestled with ADHD and severe anxiety, and was also later diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder. But even his mom and close-knit siblings couldn’t see Luke’s daily battle, which engulfed him in darkness because he was an expert at masking his illness. Luke never met a stranger, and [...]

Annah “Start-up weekend, start-up weekend” … I can still see Jen standing in front of a room of 83 students getting them to chant “start-up… weekend” back and forth. We were getting my 4th and 5th grade students ready for 2 days of participating in their very own shark tank style design process. Over those two days Jen helped inspire innovation amongst 9-11 year olds and helped them learn the real world principles of entrepreneurship. Jen had such joy all over her face teaching these students how to come up with their own unique ideas. She taught them about the value of failure and group work, dreaming big, and believing in your ideas. When those kids were chanting start-up weekend they had no idea what they were even getting ready to do. But Jen was [...]

Dianna It was a Thursday night. I was wearing navy blue pajamas with peaches on them when I heard someone knocking on my front door. It was a loud knock, the kind you feel in your gut that you can't ignore. I immediately got up and opened the door and in front of me stood four police officers. I remember his voice as he asked, "Are you Dianna Wagoner?" and "Is Daniel Wagoner your husband?" As I replied yes, my eyes focused on their faces, and they held a look of somber respect that I will never forget. The very next sentence changed everything: "Ma'am I'm sorry to tell you your husband has passed away." I stood there for what felt like an hour staring at them. I only asked one question: "Are you absolutely [...]

Banks Kaleb and Banks were sitting on the back of the bus, heading to a wrestling tournament. It was so early that it was still dark outside. They were making jokes about being off weight and looking forward to the day. “I thought those days would never end. Kaleb Wright was one of my best friends and committed suicide.” When Banks was a sophomore in high school, he became friends with Kaleb, the senior superstar on the wrestling team. Kaleb was a role model for many students, always present and supportive, making jokes, and serving as a leader. But underneath the joyful, outgoing persona, Kaleb was a deeply struggling teenager. Even as one of his closest friends and teammates, Banks had no idea the grim reality of how much pain Kaleb was in – nor [...]

Lily My dad, Jon Williams, didn’t have a bad bone in his body. He cherished time spent with family, he felt pride serving his community as a UNC physician, and he was always mindful of the simple things in life for which he felt incredibly grateful. My dad was selfless, wicked-smart, loving, and hilarious, and he could brighten any room with his unbeatable smile and contagious laughter. The peace he felt from listening to music, eating good food, playing cards, and going for “joy rides” in the car always inspired me, for he could find joy in the simplest of things. Despite his love of this life alongside family and friends, my dad lost his battle with depression in the fall of 2020. He sought help in every way that he could (through therapy, audio [...]

Naima This is my why for all that I do – my hope is to encourage others, so I appreciate the very existence of Foundation of Hope. I have a diagnosed mental illness, and others in my family. Sadly, I have a couple of male cousins who died by suicide. As an author of my poetic memoir Pure, I shared poetry of my experience grappling with the fact that I have a mental illness, and I was so vulnerable and open with my story in hopes that it could inspire and help someone else. The Foundation of Hope is an exceptional organization. I love the mission and values. They align with my own, and if it weren’t for my job with American Asset Corporation or the Walk for Hope annual event, I would not have [...]

Kimberly For as long as I can remember I felt broken, as if something was wrong with me, and that I was the only one in the world who felt that way. My name is Kimberly Bryant and I was diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder and Mood Disorder when I was only 9 years old. I had always felt as if my emotions controlled me. My psychiatrists and therapists growing up always told me my emotions were just too large for my body. I walked through life hating myself and my emotions and how they defined me. It wasn’t until a few years ago that I finally met a therapist who helped me realize that there was nothing wrong with me. My emotions didn’t control me and in fact they were only a small part [...]

Jordyn “I didn’t have the tools to cope. My parents tried to help me, but I couldn’t think of any way for them to."Jordyn struggled with anxiety her entire life, but everything came crashing down on her in high school. She became extremely stressed and overwhelmed, with fear of failure and self-imposed pressure to do better. For several months, during her worst peak, she cried every night, constantly focused on everything going wrong, and endlessly envisioned scenarios of what else could go wrong in the future. Then COVID-19 entered the picture, isolating Jordyn from the outside world.“It’s scary not knowing what’s going to happen next.”Jordyn’s family knows all too well what can happen if someone doesn’t get the help they need. In 2015, their world was rocked when Jordyn’s cousin passed away due to suicide. The [...]